Prioritise Safety:
Your safety is the top priority. Consider seeking refuge in a safe place, such as a shelter, or staying with a trusted friend or family member. Ensure you have a safety plan in place. If you need help, consider reaching out to charities such as Refuge.
Legal Protection:
Consult with the Police for protection. This may include restraining orders or non-molestation orders to keep your abusive partner away from you and your children (if you have any).
Gather Evidence:
Document instances of abuse, including dates, times, and descriptions of incidents. This evidence can support your case in court and help secure necessary protections.
Support Services:
Reach out to support services such as domestic abuse helplines, shelters, and counselling services. These organisations and charities can provide emotional support, resources, and practical assistance.
Legal Proceedings:
Your solicitor can guide you through the legal proceedings to ensure your rights are protected. They can help with filing for divorce, securing custody arrangements, and obtaining financial support. Don’t worry, you won’t have to pay for this, it’s a CPS solicitor and your Police case handler will be involved every step of the way.
Emotional Support:
Dealing with an abusive partner can be emotionally draining. Seek support from therapists, support groups, and trusted friends or family members to help you cope with the stress and trauma. And remember, it takes time. You won’t heal overnight – and that’s okay.
Conclusion:
Divorcing an abusive partner requires careful planning and professional support to ensure your safety and wellbeing. Legal protection and emotional support are crucial throughout this process.
At DK Divorce Consultants, we are dedicated to helping you navigate the complexities of divorcing an abusive partner safely and effectively. Contact us today for expert guidance and support.